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Recently I saw the Pussycat Dolls music video on myspace.com from one of my independent X girlfriends. Unfortunately it almost takes someone who is outside of social influence (...

So what is it? It's the power 'role reversal' of men and women. Is the nation headed down a path of female breadwinners and standby husbands? Don't these men know that some...

What is the answer to overcoming great obstacles in your social dating life? First you have to see the social matrix. Know what it is and you can bring it into focus and see it...

If you base things 'socially' you're going to be powerless and feel like crap much of the time. Being subject to the power of 'the group' is an invitation to just give up all of...

We all pretty much know that women like men who are 'confident'. What else do they mean when they say that? They want a man who is 'comfortable in his own skin'. So what ha...

This concept has always interested me. Women will complain about being 'hit on' all the time and guys will talk about 'hitting on' girls. Some men even admit that there just IS ...

If women can tell when a man is nervous and scared from a mile away, why would that man keep focusing on the wrong solution? He's still more interested in pick-up lines when he ...

All producers, chefs, architects, construction managers and graphic designers know how to synergize the elements involved to achieve their desired effect. The top people in fiel...

This is one of my favorite topics because if you look for it, it's elusively all around us and yet is one of the greatest keys to power itself; it's who YOU are and how you beha...

Before I get into that, let's do some background first. Are women intuitive? Yes, as they were born with that intuition. It's a part of what I call their 'natural' characte...

Why are romance novels so popular with women? And why are men's magazines with women's skin so popular? Quite a difference but look how well they sell. Why are some wome...

Here's why so many men are so far away from success with women. A man has to be equal or greater in relational power to the woman for her to be generally interested in a physica...

To maintain power in your daily life, all you have to do is get rid of all co-dependent relationships and commit to only pure interdependence with everyone and the world around you...

There are dating coaches that say that by default your talking to a beautiful woman obviously means you're interested and there's no way around that. I disagree. That's an amate...

There's just a whole problem in that statement to begin with but this is a serious issue affecting millions of men. Have you ever seen a beautiful woman and wanted to approach ...

Are women materialistic 'gold-diggers' or is this their social character and conditioning? For their 'make benefit' I can differentiate their actions and help justify their often e...

What a confusing world of dating out there isn't it? Now there are now more singles than at any time in American history. Why does dating have to be so difficult? Doesn't it s...

Have you ever stopped yourself before you called a woman to follow up with for a date? You've maybe paced around thinking about what you're going to say and built up your 'confiden...

Lots of guys will do all kinds of things to try and have more success with women but it usually backfires or doesn't actually help them. Some guys will brag about their job acc...

Did you know that before you approach a woman your general relationship with her was already set? And you thought you were just getting started. Crazy, isn't it? How is this so...

Basically, you shouldn't 'act' at all because women will see through it. So many people say that you should 'just be yourself' around women. The problem is that most men just 'a...

You may have heard the term 'Inner Game'. This probably originally stems from David DeAngelo's dating work and the work of psychologists. I'm here to say though that inner game...

This article isn't going to be about what you thought it might be. I'm not here to tell you that having a good attitude and 'keep getting out there' is going to cut it. I'm not a '...

In Alpha Relational Dynamics I like to deal with the Alpha female models. Once you know your relationship to the 'Alpha' model of women, those that are of 'lesser' caliber (or any ...

I love this topic right here. First let me say I draw the reference 'pricktease' from the movie 'Dazed and Confused'. With 'Alpha Relational Dynamics', Prickteasing is basicall...

As in the movie 'The 40 Year Old Virgin', many guys actually are putting the 'pussy' on a pedestal. They're putting it as this out of reach 'fantasy' and building up the value so m...

I've heard people say that as humans (and men), 'we are social creatures'. If you believe that now, by default it will continue to be the root of your disempowerment and demise...

Ultimately you want to see a woman for who she really is. The main thing that has likely been holding you back is that you have been unaware of your true relationship to her social...

One of the most important things you can do when it comes to being successful with women is to be able to differentiate feminine natural character from everything else they charact...

I used to ask myself this question because quite often it seemed like they just weren't interested in physical relationships at all. So why does it not seem like this? Have you...

Is there a way to overcome your fear and incongruencies around beautiful women without 'acting'? Yes. After all, did you know that this is the biggest step you will have t...

Is having success with women and dating all about the 'pick up lines' and 'what to say' or 'how to act'? No. Because if it was, you could just say one magic word or line and it...

If you've been studying self-improvement and wanting to have more success with women and dating, you have probably come across different ways of doing things. There are many te...

This article probably isn't going to be what you were expecting. But first let me say that, yes cooking can help. Let's look at those dynamics first of all. More and more these...

Women are more likely to adapt to their social environment. Why? Because naturally, they ARE the response in mating. We have been taught to think differently because of what so...

Did you know that there is actually a 'pre-game' to the dating game? It's the part where most guys fail with women and it happens right up front. It's also the hardest thing to...

With 'Sex and the City' you would think that more women would be leading free sexual lives and that more men would stop 'courting them'. I have several girlfriends and X's who ...

Why on earth would something like cognition have anything to do with dating and success with women? Well, with relational dynamics there are many things that are covered that a...

How is it that tested and tried techniques are so effective in online dating quests yet they can backfire on real one-on-one dating itself? The simple answer is that online dat...

So many men will get confused when it comes to dating women - period. They will think that because you have to study, learn and re-apply in any area of life that this is also a req...

Let's take a look at what's going on here and how it applies to you. We can also apply this knowledge and reality to a more powerful personal life and dating. I remember doing ...

You want to live the most powerful life? Here's what you have to do; get rid of all co-dependencies. All of them. Refuse to have co-dependent relationships with anyone or anythi...

I'm not talking morally necessarily, I'm talking about how pornography has affected the mindsets of millions of men and helped to reverse the power dynamic when it comes to dating ...

This whole concept is completely illogical to countless millions of men who are 'great catches' or take the traditional 'courtship' approach to dating. They don't understand how wo...

To be an effective ladies man, this is what you have to do (it all boils down to this): Take them from their being the 'stimulus' to their being the response to your natural an...

Like in many other parts in the US, Los Angeles private investigators are registered by the state authority that issues valid licenses for individual private eyes as well as for PI...

Many of the singles using online dating have problems with paying to find a date. 100% free online dating websites fight against psychological issue that some people have when they...

Can?t find a date? Try speed dating. It is not easy to find a date if you are an extreme workaholic professional who spends longer hours at office more often than spend few hours...

I started dating online before, and I find it impossible to find a useful fee dating site. Though online dating sites differed a little than blind dates set up by friends and famil...

Be ready to try meeting someone new through an online dating website. Thousands of dating websites are there in the Internet and choosing the best dating site is quite eating our t...

Trying to fin someone in this big big world can never be as impossible as before. Now that the Internet is providing us with what we really and usually need, there we can see that ...

Dating in today's world is all about online dating. No other media can deliver the kind of services that online dating services can. With an insuperable number of singles that are ...

A lot of us know when together with a person (whether first date, twentieth date, engaged, or married) it is not only the company, but what you do together that keeps things intere...

Going out on a first senior date could be quite nerve-racking. But that is absolutely a normal feeling for grown-ups of any age, especially if you have not been out dating for a lo...

An increase in age doesn?t have to be followed by a decrease in the desire for romance and relationships. At fifty or older, a lot of people end up being single again. A long term ...

Either you were gay or you?ve decided to be a bachelor by choice, there is no reason why you should be angry at that idea. Blind date has become common thing following the rise of ...

The Roman matron asked Rabbi Yossi ben Halafta: ?How many days did it take G-d to create the world?? He answered: ?It took him 6 days, and that is what written in Shmot 31:17: ?...

The Babel Talmud says: ?If a widower marries second time, he will still always remember his first wife. Once Abraham Lincoln told a funny story that describes that saying: ?Duri...

I am sure you know a lot about the St. Valentine?s Day, its history, customs and traditions. I am going to tell you about a holiday that is considered to be the most romantic time ...

There is no exact statistics on how many sites that promote online dating, profiles of single Russian women and their ads, and other dating possibilities are there in Internet. It ...

One of the biggest blessings in life is to find a woman of dreams and have a family with her. After collapse of USSR thousands of Western men became interested in Russian and Ukrai...

Helping two people to meet and then see their relationship grow and become serious and then turn into marriage with children is one of the most pleasant things in the world. Many m...

Western men often admit that Russian and Ukrainian women are ?old fashioned? or ?traditional valued? family and relationship wise and that nowadays it became really hard to find a ...

If you know how to use them properly, online dating is one of the best ways of attracting women. The advantage that it has over the more traditional methods is the security of bein...

Did you have a disastrous dating experience with someone? Do you hate hearing negative sentiments from your previous dating partners, such as your hair does not look good or you ar...

Cupid. In Roman history, he is the God of Love and the son Of Venus. He is a small, winged boy, blindfolded, carrying bow and arrows. The arrows, once struck the heart, makes the v...

When it comes to finding a partner, there may be a lot of fish in the sea. But what if you don't have time to swim with every school, or you live in over-fished waters? Or maybe yo...

In today?s society, there is so much pressure to get married and live out ?the perfect life? (in other words, have a nice home, a lucrative job, and a picture perfect family). And ...

Stephanie, 17, and David who is just 18 are college students who think they are in love. They feel the world is at their feet. The moment Stephanie thinks about David, her face glo...

If you enjoy dating and meeting new people, then by all means answer some personals or, better yet, run your own ad. You cannot personally be where most other singles are at any gi...