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3 Little-Known Dating Tips To Create Magnetic Attraction

It's amazing but many guys unknowingly ruin their dating game because they do the same things other guys do and just end up frustrated and perplexed. Check out the following common dating mistakes so you can get rid of them and tighten up your dating
game.

OK, you've spotted a cutie and you want to get it on with her. You want to make a good impression so, you get your act together, and you make a good confident approach. Maybe you've teased her a little, made her laugh and you most definitely haven't kissed up. Feeling like this is going better than you imagined, you begin to talk about your great job, your super fast sports car, your earnings, your cool apartment yadda, yadda, yadda. Hey, why didn't you just wear a tee-shirt with "Look Girls! MEAL TICKET HERE" on the front and back? Here comes the scoop: When you do this, you are trying to impress her with something other than yourself. You are seeking approval, and you don't think you can get it just by being yourself. Girls pick up on this kind if stuff instantly and it's a turn off.
So reverse this. Ask her "Do you earn good money? I only date women who earn good money so they can support me and give me the standard of living I deserve!" This kind of reversa
l works a treat with women, try it and see for yourself!

If you want to get it on with an attractive woman, you have to understand that you need to be a challenge. An attractive woman gets asked out all of the time, mostly by guys who kiss up to her and present no challenge to her whatsoever. For her, this never-ending parade of bozos is amusing, but it's also tiresome. She longs for someone who is a challenge, who stands out from the crowd, a switched on guy who isn't predictable or boring. Alas, such men are a rare breed. One of the worst ways you can betray that you are about as challenging as boiling an egg is to approach her, pay her a compliment, make some small talk about who she is, what she does and other such BORING "w" rubbish and then send her to sleep by asking her out. She says "sure, that sounds nice, call me" and you ring and wonder why you get an answer message or some idiot telling you the time "sponsored by acme". This is what happens to an attractive woman day after day, week after week and it bores her. Be a challenge. Don't hang around her making boring small talk and don't ask her out. Make her laugh, get her number, her email address or her IM details and say "I'm really busy right now and I'll try and get in touch when I get some time." And away you go. You can do this several times in one night too. Do you see how much more of a challenge this makes you?

I'm about to reveal to you the magical secret of attraction. For women, this secret acts like a magnet if a man has it. They will describe it as "the it factor" and the good news is any man can possess it. Ready? Confidence. But what is a confident male? He is a man who is comfortable with himself and who has a life. He isn't needy, approval seeking or clingy. He can communicate with women in a way that says "I select who comes into my life and you have to impress me to get a shot at the title". He never kisses up to a woman, isn't intimidated by looks and doesn't obsess over one woman. He knows he can get a woman whenever he wants and is indifferent to the outcomes. Summed up, he BELIEVES he is a catch and if a woman doesn't want along, HER LOSS. He is fun to be around, isn't an aggressive bully or belittling idiot, nor is he foolish or boyish and when he approaches a woman, he does it confidently, with the belief that she'll want him. But most guys aren't confident with women and they betray this to women by being nervous and fidgety around them, by avoiding eye contact and by making a timid, almost apologetic approach. Be confident, get your dating game sorted out and women will be magnetically attracted to you.

The above four dating mistakes are performed by most guys, guys who don't get the dates they really want. Be different, lose these mistakes and you will get the dates most guys can only dream about!
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