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The Primary Social Dilemma of Our TimeSo what is it? It's the power 'role reversal' of men and women.Is the nation headed down a path of female breadwinners and standby husbands? Don't these men know that something is amiss? Don't they feel ashamed in a way th What happened to men of courage and character? Popular society now seems to favor the alpha male archetypes that are dangerous and bravado in their approval of female exploitation such as hip-hop's superstars. Or is that maybe just because few balanced, masculine role models exist in a now female dominated social culture? After all, it is hard for the majority of men to have a role model anymore when they see the beta men on t.v. being saved by their super girlfriends. The polarization is often that if you're not an abusive jerk, you're probably just a nice guy who will succumb to any beautiful woman's whim or desire just to be closer to her. Of course every man is different but we can look at the general overall trends that exist in our behavioral reality now. Do we look at the unique behavior Does it come down to his different personality and interests? No. That's too variable. We can look at the big picture. The men who are most effective with women and attracting them for physical relationships are guys that essentially weren't conditioned by social influence. They retained their natural ability while the 'nicest' of guys had the MOST social influence and programming. Everyone is blaming everything but the actual root source of these problems in the first place; it's social influence. Since society gave women 'the power', there has been a role reversal. Men became confused with women's behavior at the same time as edifying it. With sexploitation, men become even more influenced by the social powers and don't know how to be comfortable around women anymore because they've built up this perceptual fantasy world about a woman's power. This further put them down the social hierarchy. Over years of programming, countless men started to become weaker and weaker especially in relation to the women they edify. They would withdraw into other outlets to let out this negative sexual transmutation. Pornography, strip parlors, the man show, his garage, poker night, dungeons & dragons, video games, etc. All of these industries that are capitalizing on the new economic reality of exploiting women yet conveniently giving women power at the same time. Millions of women have also fallen into this socio-economic cycle as well. Even those that aren't as affected still take their level of empowerment and freedom for granted unless they feel it's necessary to defend it. Millions of women daily live in a life where they no longer 'need' men. They have become the stimulus and become of the edification of women socially; they now receive all kinds of attention and can reject any man dismissively. No wonder men are distraught with confusion and sometimes depression. You can't tame the shrew but for a moment. A woman who has developed so much has tasted too much of a new reality. You cannot take her back to her natural roots and make her pure again. She is a different creature than man and the only chance is to get her out of the society which (in many ways) has corrupted or empowered her (way beyond man) in the first place. The reality that these women will object to what I just said further proves my point. Do men want to live with this? Do they know what they're getting into by wanting a goddess or diva? Do they know how much of their own power they would have to give up in order to accomodate her? Or had these men already lost it years ago because of this #1 social dilemma? A 50% divorce rate didn't come from nowhere. I'm all for women who add value to other's lives but when men don't understand this behavior and where it comes from, there not going to be able to reach through to her for very long anyways. We cannot give up and let the nation slip into a reality where men have become weak in relation to women. These women are waiting for men to step up and at least be their equal in power. For a man to grow in character is more important than to have quick success with women because it's part of what attracts and keeps women to him anyways. It's time we have more men of character and strength who can see the yellow and red flags that women are showing and instead of being steamrolled over by women, stand up for their own reality. -Rion Williams Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power, body language and social dynamics. Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating @ www.abovethegame.net Also, you can get instant access to see the 'secret of women' for yourself @ www.secretofwomen.com/resources.htm Permalink: http://expert-talk.com/tips/645/the-primary-social-dilemma-of-our-time-121645.htm Related Tips and Advices
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