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Relational Power for Social ConfidenceThis is one of my favorite topics because if you look for it, it's elusively all around us and yet is one of the greatest keys to power itself;it's who YOU are and how you behave in relation to all other power. It's YOUR t That is the key to whether others can trust you to open up to you and begin a new relationship. They're unconsciously looking at you to see what kind of true relationship you have with them. That's the REAL test for those people letting you in or not, otherwise you won't be able to stay around them for long. Those who keep their power earn respect and more power. Those who give it up are at the shallower end of (upcoming) the gene pool. Do you think that a Tom cruise could truly trust an autograph-seeking fan? Could he give away details of his life to them? I mean it's quite clear who has the power in that situation. No, he's going to sign his autograph, maybe do a quick chat and leave. That relationship is quite limited because it's essentially a stimulus-response relationship. Unless that Power looks for it's equal and power is above those who acknowledge it's social place. So why do men keep approaching any and all beautiful women as if they're obviously aware of her power but he's just wanting a quick fix (throw a pick-up line out/get an autograph and then be ultimately rejected)? It's astounding isn't it? Pre-Dating or the phase before 'anything' ever happens is really just a relational power game. Yet that's the reason why men fail to establish relationships with sexy and beautiful women. They've already given up their power to the women and it's quite obvious. Either through his body language or his nervous energy in communicating with her, he's not aware of the true reason why he's not succeeding. She's the stimulus (as society promotes) and she DOES have power (socially), but he's the response. ANY type of relationship WILL be limited. She can't view him as a sexual interest because she clearly cannot trust him from the get-go. No amount of him explaining himself is going to do it either. He either has power in relation to her or he doesnt'. Doesn't matter if he's a guy who is comfortable in his own skin around his buddies; what matters to her is his relation to her. He has to be her equal in relational power or greater in order for her to even trust him so they can begin a relationship. When he DOES have 'the power' and keeps it so that he can connect and behave interdependently with other people of power as true equals, THEN he has the strongest interpersonal skillset; his nonverbal body language will be saying all the right things without trying. Fortunately for men; relational power itself is also VALUE. Because if you're strong enough to be one of the few men in her adult life that doesn't have a physiological reaction to HER level of social status and power (and she realizes it which she should), she's going to be interested. And you WANT women interested because it gives you more options and thus even MORE power. When you do have power in relation to other sources of power, you will BEHAVE as the same man, before, during and after your interaction with them. There's no putting on a 'game face' because you already understand your relationship to the power that women are leveraging and represent BEFORE you meet them. Sure, you can learn how to be an expert autograph-seeker (phone number seeker) - limiting your relationships with beautiful, desirable women to 'opening' them and then essentially getting rejected in the big picture. Even when you do get their autograph/phone number (if it's real), their relationship to you is that there isn't going to BE a relationship because they couldn't trust you to be truly independent in relation to them. You can learn how to approach thousands and get a little different form of response rejection from each of them but you still lose. Does getting autographs make you a better man? Wouldn't you rather have REAL relationships forming? Plus the power to be able to form new relationships whenever you want? If you're the response to her power, that means she's #1 and you'll keep draining her energy. There's no way she can trust you to be independent and come together for a truly win/win relationship. In the bedroom she expects a man to be a man and lead her so that she can let go and respond to his energy. It's asexual for her to always have the power that society gave her; she dreams of escaping all of that pressure. Man is the one with power naturally to attract women and you can take them away without being a jerk. Understand and apply relational dynamics and your behavior and lifestyle will change more than any amount of appeasing or autograph-seeking relationship technique could ever do. I can teach you how to be powerful in relation to any other power or person on earth and I lead by example. It will eradicate fear, anxiety, incongruity and nervous behavior. Heck, applied relational dynamics will also help you overcome your fear of public speaking. So are you going to finally BE that man who has power in relation to the power that women represent so that they can finally open up to you or are you going to keep doing the same thing and remaining in a limited type of relationship with them? Alpha R.D. is the power to behave congruently and attract even seduce (of course) the most beautiful women in the world. Your other characteristics are small in comparison to relational power because she'll never see them anyways if you don't have 'the power'. Go Alpha! -Rion Williams Article Directory: http://www.articledashboard.com Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power, body language and social dynamics. Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating @ www.abovethegame.net Also, you can get instant access to see the 'secret of women' for yourself @ www.secretofwomen.com/resources.htm Permalink: http://expert-talk.com/tips/652/relational-power-for-social-confidence-121652.htm Related Tips and Advices
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